There are times when prayer does not work

Does prayer work?  If I ask for something, will God give it to me?

Prayer does work, but not for everyone.  The Bible says if I continue in sin God does not listen.  If I do not love my wife the way I should, my prayers are hindered.  If I will not turn from my ways that are wicked, God does not hear.

This makes sense.  As if God would help me steal something or cheat on a test.  If I keep on living against God, why would I think he would help me.  

When you ask, you don't get it because your motives are all wrong-- you want only what will give you pleasure.  James 4:3

So, as I pray today, what can I ask from God that is not selfish.  This is not about me.  How can I adjust my ways to move in harmony with God.  Not my plan or my will.  

Just thankful that we can turn from our ways and walk with God.  He invites us to be part of what is good and right.  I want him more than all the stuff.  

Still much to learn about this.  For me.